Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

As a quintessential spoiled brat and a typical believer in fairy tales. I truly believe that love, loyalty and truth is the foundation of world and on micro- level every interaction among living beings.

But post marriage I realised that fairy tales are TRUE but they are not handed over to you gift wrapped. It’s not something that you receive or you fight for or you should dare to wish for. That phase was difficult for me to let go as a ignorant girl I thought that everyone needs the same, a fairy tale where everyone is happy and wants to live happily ever after.

The realization stuck me that you have to create the fairy tale with the believes and dreams that you so dearly hold to your soul. You have to use your every single cell in your being to create the tangible, physical reality of the fairy tale that you desire for yourself and everyone you care for.

The phase, that if the fairy tale already exists in my mind then it SHOULD exist in real and others are responsible, to create it for me. That phase was a painful realisation that father/mother are not responsible to give you your fairy tale. They gives you freedom and all the resources and values to you, they have already given you the power to create.

That letting go was the beginning of real fairy tale.